Geoff Steurer
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

With 20 years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families, I will make sure you get the help you're seeking.

Click here for fees and intake instructions

I also have specialized training in these areas:

Marriage Counseling (including working with affairs, addiction, and other betrayals)

Pornography and Sexual Addiction Treatment for Men

Betrayal Trauma for Women 



Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT) may be able to help.  I have completed advanced training in EFT and will work with you and your partner to identify and resolve the patterns that keep your relationship stuck.


EFT is:

Read the following Psychology Today Article by Dr. Susan Johnson on the science of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy or listen to an online interview she did for Blog Talk Radio in October 2010.

Or, you can watch the following interview Dr. Sue Johnson did for the “Two of Us” organization. She explains the basics of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and defines what healthy marriages look like.

If you think Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy can help your relationship, please contact me.

(Source:  Jeffery Hickey, LCSW



Individuals who struggle to stop viewing pornography often feel powerless and hopeless over their efforts to quit.  Partners of those who struggle feel betrayed, confused, and anxious about the pornography use.

Sometimes individuals have problematic sexual behaviors that go beyond pornography, including affairs, prostitutes/escorts, strip clubs, voyeurism, and masturbation.

Getting help for problematic sexual behavior takes courage.  I have specialized training in assisting those who struggle with pornography and sexually problematic behaviors.  I can help you stop the self-defeating patterns that threaten your emotional, spiritual, physical, and relational health.

Consider the following questions:

If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, contact me and we can talk about your situation and the best way to help you move toward a healthier you.

Treatment options are available for individuals who struggle, betrayed partners, couples, and families:

I also offer the following counseling services for individuals, couples, and families affected by pornography and compulsive sexual behaviors:

The most important thing to do is reach out and open up to someone who can help.



It is surprising how difficult life becomes when you've been betrayed. There are so many unexpected hardships. Regular things feel so much more difficult (like parenting, friendships, socializing, work, sleeping, eating, and others). Even though his behavior isn't your fault, the fallout from his actions impact your mind, feelings, body, spirit, and relationships. 

You long to stop the pain, so you focus on the source of that pain... your partner's addiction. You might tell yourself, "If he just gets over his pornography or sexual addiction, I'll be fine."

It's true that he does need to heal from his addictive behaviors. It's also true that you've been deeply wounded by his choices. You need your own healing.

In the stress and confusion, it's normal to forget your own need to heal and to be heard.

I can help you reclaim your life and heal. 

Contact me and let me know how I can help you get the healing you need. 

I also am the director of the LifeStar program, which is a treatment program for individuals and couples impacted by pornography addiction and betrayal trauma. 


Fees and Forms


Therapy Session Fee: $150.00 per 45 minute session. 

**If you need more time than the standard 45 minute session, then extra time will be billed at the same rate. 

After you have called and set an appointment to meet with me, my office assistant will email you intake paperwork that needs to be completed online and submitted before your first appointment. Completing this beforehand will allow more time for you to speak with me in session about the issues that bring you to counseling.

INSURANCE: I am not a provider for any insurance carriers. I do not bill insurance companies. It is your responsibility to pay for your session fees prior to service. If you would like to submit a statement of service to your insurance for potential reimbursement of your costs, please inform the office assistant and they will provide one.

THIRD PARTY PAYMENT (INCLUDING LDS BISHOPS): We can submit invoices to LDS bishops for reimbursement. If your bishop will be paying for your counseling sessions, please bring his mailing address and phone number with you to your initial appointment. 

* Payment will be collected prior to your session (card, check, or cash). If the session goes over the allotted time, your session fee will be adjusted accordingly.