is overwhelming, humiliating, terrifying. You’re not only dealing with your partner’s loss of respect, but maybe even loss of respect for yourself.
It seems like the more you try to fix things, the worse it gets. You ease up and hope it gets better, but you find yourself trapped in a cycle of the same arguments.
Fortunately, there is a proven way to rebuild the trust you've broken that not many people know about. That's why I created the Trust Building Bootcamp.
Get clear on exactly what you need to do right now to start repairing your relationship.
Improve communication with your partner and understand why they respond the way they do.
Create healing conditions that actively rebuild trust every single day.
Become more self-aware and avoid destructive behaviors that may cause you to unintentionally break trust.
Become a trustworthy person again – not just for yourself & your partner, but in all of your relationships.
No matter how broken things feel right now, The Trust Building Bootcamp will guide you step by step towards restoring your relationship and yourself.
MEET YOUR COACH
I know what it feels like to break your partner's trust. To feel like you've lost all respect, status & admiration and to worry that things could never go back to the way they were. But I'm here to tell you: all is NOT lost.
For the past 20+ years, I’ve worked as a licensed marriage therapist helping thousands of couples find their way back to happy, strong & secure relationships. Through a series of core principles and proven strategies, my 12-week Trust Building Bootcamp will teach you how to create an environment where trust can grow.
Repairing broken trust isn’t easy and takes time. Let me help you do something about it now so you can get back to love sooner rather than later.
Broken trust puts everyone in crisis and it’s critical to make smart choices to help begin the trust rebuilding process as quickly as possible. I’ll teach you what to do and what not to do in the early days and weeks after trust has been broken.
In this module, I’ll explain betrayal trauma and help you understand why your betrayed partner responds the way they do. I’ll also outline what your partner needs in order to heal so you can learn how to offer support.
Even though you’re working to help your partner heal, you need to make sure you’re as stable as possible so you can be there for them. I’ll help you identify specific areas where you need to strengthen yourself to make sure you can go the distance and keep showing up for your partner.
Your motives and attitude need to be in the right place so you can be a source of healing for your injured partner. Otherwise, your partner won’t ever feel safe with you and trust you. This module will help you get your heart aligned so you can do the right things for the right reasons.
Most people don’t mean to break trust. Usually serious mistakes happen due to a lack of self-awareness. I’ll help you identify your blind spots and become more self-aware so you can avoid the patterns that caused you to break trust.
If you’ve ever kept a secret from your loved one, then you’ve struggled to own your story. I’ll teach you how to face your own story without shame and denial. You’ll work hard to get honest about what you’ve done and how it’s impacted you and your loved one.
Rebuilding trust not only takes time, but also requires creating the correct healing conditions. Even though you can’t make the injured person trust you again, you can create conditions that will make it easier for them to decide to trust again. In this module, you’ll learn what these conditions are and why they're necessary for trust to thrive.
If you’re getting mixed signals from your hurt loved one, it’s because you are actually two things to them: You are both a source of pain as well as a source of comfort. Understanding this reality will help you respond to them in healthy ways. I will give you specific tools to help you respond better to your partner’s pain.
As you work to rebuild trust, you'll inadvertently say and do things that hurt your partner. I’ll help you identify and eliminate the most common problem behaviors and attitudes that keep the relationship from progressing forward in the trust-building process.
As trust starts to heal, your injured loved one will have a lot to say about the ways your actions impacted them. Your ability to take in their world and truly listen will be a determining factor in rebuilding trust. If you fail to really listen to what they’re saying, it could reverse all of the trust-building progress you’ve made. I’ll teach you what good listeners do so you can offer your injured partner a safe and secure environment to open up their world to you.
I’ll teach you how to stay in ongoing long-term accountability and maintain the gains you’ve created in rebuilding trust. Living a new life worthy of trust is better than a thousand expressions of “I’m sorry.” I’ll clarify the overall roadmap of long-term trust maintenance and address specific relationship scenarios that can be challenging to navigate.
Rebuilding trust means building a new relationship that looks nothing like the former relationship. Even though your relationship can't be fully rebuilt after 12 weeks, I’ll share my vision for what’s possible so you can continue building on this new foundation of trust.
When you enroll, you will get instant access to all the materials included in the first month of the program. If you are not completely satisfied with the course after this first month, I will happily refund 100% of your purchase upon request.
"I did the first lesson and you are amazing! I wasn’t sure what exactly I wanted to do with this program when I started but I think I do now! You move at a pace that gives the person time to think, make decisions, etc. And your presentation asks questions that if you really want this to work you can’t avoid! Well done-thank you for letting me do this. I can see where these principles have worked other times for me and even though this will be tough, I believe it will bring great results! "
Even if I was working directly with you one-on-one, I couldn’t guarantee a specific relationship outcome because it involves two people who both get to decide what they ultimately want. What I CAN guarantee is that you will learn proven principles for creating optimal conditions where trust can grow and thrive. I’ll provide the education, you live the principles, and then your partner will decide if they want to trust you again.
You can ask questions inside the course that I will then answer during the live webinar calls. You will get access to these calls as part of your purchase.
This course is designed to directly benefit your relationship as you apply these principles. Your partner is welcome to watch the videos with you if they'd like. As you apply the trust-building principles taught in the course, you'll create optimal conditions to help them heal.
No one can make someone trust them, but you can give them more reasons to want to trust you again. It takes longer than 12 weeks to rebuild lasting trust, which is why I'm giving you free access to my bi-monthly webinars so you can continue to learn and apply these principles after the course is finished. And, ultimately, regardless of your relationship status, you can always work to become a trustworthy person.