The Safe Connection Checklist

7 Signs Your Partner is Becoming Ready for Rebuilding Trust

This Guide will Help You

01

Understand what genuine safety and real change look like in your partner


 

02

Identify early signs of trustworthiness without lowering your guard


 

03

Stay grounded in your own healing while exploring the possibility of reconciliation.

 

Know What Real Safety Looks Like

When you’ve been betrayed, your first responsibility is to your own safety and healing. But if you’re open to the possibility of rebuilding the relationship, it’s important to know what real safety and genuine change look like in your partner.

This free checklist from Geoff Steurer, LMFT, CCPS, outlines early indicators that your partner is beginning to show the consistency, humility, and accountability required for real trust-building. You’ll also find reflection prompts to help you stay grounded in your own healing while discerning relational safety at your own pace.

You don’t have to guess what safety looks like.

Hi, I'm Geoff

For more than 25 years, I’ve helped couples and individuals heal from betrayal, rebuild trust, and find their way back to themselves and each other.

I also work with people carrying trauma or navigating the everyday disconnection that can quietly erode a relationship.

My goal is to create a space where healing, honesty, and real connection can take root.

Hi, I'm Geoff

For more than 25 years, I’ve helped couples and individuals heal from betrayal, rebuild trust, and find their way back to themselves and each other.

I also work with people carrying trauma or navigating the everyday disconnection that can quietly erode a relationship.

My goal is to create a space where healing, honesty, and real connection can take root.

Know the signs of real safety before you risk rebuilding trust.

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7 Signs Your Partner is Becoming Ready for Rebuilding Trust

Simple tools to steady you, your partner, and your relationship.