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Want to Help Your Betrayed Partner Through a Trigger—but Always Say the Wrong Thing?

This guide gives you 10 simple ways to be a calming, safe presence when your betrayed partner is overwhelmed.

This Guide for:

This guide offers practical and compassionate ways to support your partner when she feels emotionally triggered. It helps you respond with understanding, patience, and empathy instead of defensiveness or withdrawal.

It’s for you if:
  • You're struggling to know how to respond when your partner is upset or overwhelmed
  • You're in a relationship working through healing and rebuilding trust after betrayal
  • You want to become more grounded and present during conflict post-betrayal

What You'll Get

When your partner is triggered, it’s easy to freeze, get defensive, or try to fix it. This guide will help you stay grounded and show up in ways that actually build trust—without adding more hurt.

Inside, you’ll learn:
  • What to say (and not say) in the moment
  • How to stay calm and attuned when emotions rise
  • The one thing your partner needs more than an apology

Hi, I'm Geoff

For more than 25 years, I’ve helped couples and individuals heal from betrayal, rebuild trust, and find their way back to themselves and each other.

I also work with people carrying trauma or navigating the everyday disconnection that can quietly erode a relationship.

My goal is to create a space where healing, honesty, and real connection can take root.

Learn more

Hi, I'm Geoff

For more than 25 years, I’ve helped couples and individuals heal from betrayal, rebuild trust, and find their way back to themselves and each other.

I also work with people carrying trauma or navigating the everyday disconnection that can quietly erode a relationship.

My goal is to create a space where healing, honesty, and real connection can take root.

Learn more

Move from frustration and fighting into understanding and repair - download the resource that shows you how.

What People are Saying

Your guidance has helped me immensely.

I feel like I have a wonderful and open relationship with my wife. I love being a dad and enjoy playing with my two beautiful children. Thank you for helping me understand and heal in positive ways. The journey isn't over, and I love my wife who is helping me understand what true love is."

Anonymous

Geoff is the best in 
his field!

He is soft-spoken, loving, non-judgmental, and very professional. He can heal any broken marriage! I highly recommend him for any couple or person who has experienced betrayal. Geoff will work with you to get your life back!


DB

I want to thank you 
and Jody!

I want to thank you and Jody for being so open and real about your experiences. Please tell her I have literally laughed, cried, cheered and prayed because what you guys are willing to share.




TR

It was extremely eye opening!

First, I want to thank you for your most amazing work and tell you how much my husband and I have learned from your podcast and other materials. The Trust Building Workshop in particular was extremely eye opening as well as mind opening.

Anonymous

That truth feels essential.

Your resources have been the most grounding, regulating, healthy, and sustainable approaches I've found. Not easy. But they feel true. And that truth feels essential.



FD

Free Guide

10 Ways to Show Up for Your Partner When She’s Triggered

This guide will help you gain clarity when you are unsure how to talk to your partner.