Q&A with Geoff: Should I expect to know my husband's phone code?

q&a with geoff Jul 16, 2020

Question

After 25 years of marriage, my husband put a code on his phone and won’t let me know it. It’s now been 11 months, and whenever I say anything about it, he gets upset. When he initially did it, he said it’s either going to make or break the marriage, but he’s prepared for any outcome. This really hurts. How should I...

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Q&A with Geoff: How often should I be sexually intimate when I don’t feel like it?

q&a with geoff Jun 30, 2020

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I have been married to the most patient, kind, loving, gentle man I’ve ever met for almost 10 years. When we first were married we were very active with our sexual intimacy, but as time has gone on and a few kids later, work, school, depression medications – I just don’t feel like being intimate very often. I could honestly...

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Q&A with Geoff: My wife is dying and I'm a mess

q&a with geoff Jun 18, 2020

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My 74 year-old wife has recently been diagnosed with cancer that has spread. She is receiving a lot of medical attention and care. Unfortunately, it seems that this disease will ultimately take her life. 

My wife is a brave and courageous woman. She is also loved and respected by three generations. The thing is,...

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Q&A with Geoff: My sister-in-law is possessive of my husband

q&a with geoff May 19, 2020

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My husband’s older sister was widowed two years ago. She has no children and no other siblings. Prior to this, she would barely give my husband and me the time of day. However, since being widowed, she had bonded to us like cement!

We were there for her throughout the initial difficulties, but now my husband has made himself more than...

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Q&A with Geoff: My alcoholic son refuses to honor our rules

q&a with geoff May 15, 2020

Question

My son is 40 years old, an alcoholic and is separated from his wife. He is also having financial issues. He can work from home, so he came home to stay with us so he can regroup. We told him he could stay, but he couldn’t drink in our home. Evidently, that rule was broken the first day he came. 

We have helped him with his bills...

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Q&A with Geoff: I feel like I’m only a paycheck to my wife

q&a with geoff Apr 06, 2020

Question

My wife and I have been married for many years, and we have a large and loving family. However, our relationship has always been somewhat distant and shallow, even as newlyweds, since we dated and married fairly quickly. I have taken responsibility for this, as I’ve never been good at relationships and have always defaulted to sulking...

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Q&A with Geoff: How do I know if I’ve found the woman I should marry?

q&a with geoff Apr 02, 2020

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I am currently in a relationship in which we have been dating for six months. A few months ago, we were talking about marriage, and there were times I felt like it could work and times where I felt sincere doubt about that choice.

I’ve sought confirmation from God that it’s right, and I’ve felt good about the relationship. I...

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Q&A with Geoff: My stepdaughter went behind my back to reunite my dying husband and his ex

q&a with geoff Mar 12, 2020

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My husband and his then-girlfriend had a baby girl when they were teenagers. They placed this child for adoption, and their teenage relationship didn’t last long after that and they broke up. Forty years later, this daughter contacted my husband, they met, we met, we get along, she and her husband come to family gatherings, and...

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Q&A with Geoff - My stepson is behaving like his unhealthy father

q&a with geoff Mar 04, 2020

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I recently got married and have been put in a difficult position. My wife came into our marriage with her 11-year-old son from her first marriage. There were many reasons why she left her marriage, but the short story is that her ex-husband didn’t keep his marital vows. Our family life and his family life are starkly different.

We are...

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Q&A with Geoff - My husband was looking at porn, I’m worried he isn’t attracted to me anymore

q&a with geoff Feb 29, 2020

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I walked in on my husband looking at pornography. I was crushed because he knew how I felt about pornography and promised he wouldn’t view it. Now all I can think about is him wanting to look at it.

When he comes home from work, he likes to relax in the bedroom so he can cool down because he works outside. I’m in the other room...

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