Q&A with Geoff: My husband keeps revealing new details of his old affair

q&a with geoff Aug 13, 2020

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I have been married for 23 years, and during the first 10 years my husband had three affairs – that I know of. I was devastated, but we managed to stay together. I recently found out that the second affair went further than he had originally told me. This has completely destroyed me.

Why is it bothering me as if it happened yesterday?...

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Q&A with Geoff: My fiancé and I have different ideas on repentance

q&a with geoff Aug 06, 2020

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This girl and I are very interested in each other. We both have a desire to be married under the premarital chastity requirements of our religion. However, we have also had similar pasts as teens and young adults involving pornography and other immoral things of that nature that will require our repentance before the marriage ceremony can...

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My impression of my wife was wrong, and I don’t feel like I’m special to her

q&a with geoff Jul 28, 2020

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I just barely found out that my wife had been promiscuous with her neighbor right before we began dating. She had just divorced her husband, and in a matter of days, she was already involved with someone else. I really had hoped that this “church girl” I thought I was married to was not so promiscuous as I’ve now learned she...

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Q&A with Geoff: What is the difference between helping and being used?

q&a with geoff Jul 23, 2020

Question

Is there a dividing line between loving or helping our neighbor and being taken advantage of? Our neighbor drives old cars and calls us whenever he breaks down, even in the middle of the night. My husband always goes and helps him, but I’m starting to feel we are being used.

Answer

You’re asking an important question that...

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Q&A with Geoff: How can my husband and I get out of our ‘feast and famine’ pattern?

q&a with geoff Jul 17, 2020

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Our relationship seems to always be feast or famine. We’ve talked about it on multiple occasions, yet we continue to be stuck in this pattern. Surely it must be indicative of something. It certainly doesn’t seem healthy, even for a marriage recovering from betrayal. What can we do? 

As an example, in terms of physical...

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Q&A with Geoff: Should I expect to know my husband's phone code?

q&a with geoff Jul 16, 2020

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After 25 years of marriage, my husband put a code on his phone and won’t let me know it. It’s now been 11 months, and whenever I say anything about it, he gets upset. When he initially did it, he said it’s either going to make or break the marriage, but he’s prepared for any outcome. This really hurts. How should I...

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Q&A with Geoff: How often should I be sexually intimate when I don’t feel like it?

q&a with geoff Jun 30, 2020

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I have been married to the most patient, kind, loving, gentle man I’ve ever met for almost 10 years. When we first were married we were very active with our sexual intimacy, but as time has gone on and a few kids later, work, school, depression medications – I just don’t feel like being intimate very often. I could honestly...

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Q&A with Geoff: My wife is dying and I'm a mess

q&a with geoff Jun 18, 2020

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My 74 year-old wife has recently been diagnosed with cancer that has spread. She is receiving a lot of medical attention and care. Unfortunately, it seems that this disease will ultimately take her life. 

My wife is a brave and courageous woman. She is also loved and respected by three generations. The thing is,...

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Q&A with Geoff: My sister-in-law is possessive of my husband

q&a with geoff May 19, 2020

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My husband’s older sister was widowed two years ago. She has no children and no other siblings. Prior to this, she would barely give my husband and me the time of day. However, since being widowed, she had bonded to us like cement!

We were there for her throughout the initial difficulties, but now my husband has made himself more than...

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Q&A with Geoff: My alcoholic son refuses to honor our rules

q&a with geoff May 15, 2020

Question

My son is 40 years old, an alcoholic and is separated from his wife. He is also having financial issues. He can work from home, so he came home to stay with us so he can regroup. We told him he could stay, but he couldn’t drink in our home. Evidently, that rule was broken the first day he came. 

We have helped him with his bills...

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