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A Post-Disclosure Pep Talk for the Betrayed Partner - Episode 241
Discovering you have been betrayed is an extreme life-altering moment. Knowing what to do or where to turn next can feel insurmountable. In this episode I share 4 thoughts as a “pep talk” for the betrayed partner....
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A Post-Disclosure Pep Talk for the Recovering Partner - Episode 240
The road after a betrayal and disclosure can be long and arduous. In this episode I share 4 thoughts as a “pep talk” for the recovering partner who is inevitably facing extreme discomfort and uncertainty. Stepping...
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"No More Mr. Nice Guy" - with Dr. Robert Glover - Episode 239
The need to be accepted, combined with the fear of abandonment and rejection can lead us into becoming what other people want us to be while hiding who we truly are. This can drive us to deceit, manipulation, lies,...
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The Lure of the Victim Mindset
This week we are re-visiting an episode that aired one year ago, but is an important topic that is continually relevant as we navigate the ups and downs of life.
Life is full of situations that are out of our control....
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Resilience in the Aftermath of Betrayal - with KayLee Dunn - Episode 238
It's common for betrayed partners to wonder if they'll ever be themselves again. Enduring sleepless nights, constant stress, and regular emotional breakdowns can cause doubt that there can be a future worth looking...
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Narcissism or Emotional Immaturity? - with Tony Overbay - Episode 237
Narcissism has gained momentum in everyday conversation. While many individuals exhibit varying degrees of narcissistic tendencies, true Narcissistic Personality Disorder needs much more attention and diagnosing than...
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The Importance of Men's Work - with Kurt Francom - Episode 236
One of the biggest casualties men experience, often when they are boys, is getting separated from their own hearts and living life on autopilot. Addictions, trauma, abandonment, and other challenges can create more...
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The Four Levels of Communication - with Nathaniel Gustafson - Episode 235
Communication in a marriage or committed relationship isn't always easy, especially in the aftermath of betrayal. We've invited fellow therapist Nathaniel Gustafson to teach us more about the four levels of...
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Transactional vs. Transformational Relationship Dynamics - with Julia Witt - Episode 234
We've invited Julia Witt to join us for a great discussion on transactional versus transformational relationships. Geoff discovered Julia when someone sent him a Tik Tok video of her discussing this topic. He knew he...
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Taking Ownership of Our Stories - with Jason Portnoy - Episode 233
In this episode we are joined by Jason Portnoy, who wrote a memoir called “Silicon Valley Porn Star”. Jason shares his personal journey of addiction, infidelity, and self-discovery. We discuss the importance of...
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Worthiness vs. Trust - Episode 232
In this episode we discuss the topic of rebuilding trust and healing from betrayal. The concepts of 'worthiness' and 'trust' often get confused, and it is extremely important to maintain a clear distinction....
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Healing Rituals in Marriage - with Amanda Christensen, LMFT - Episode 231
When we have injuries, losses, disappointments, betrayals, and other painful things happen in our marriages, healing rituals are a way we can mark that things are different. We use rituals all the time to symbolically...
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