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  Rebuild Trust and Restore Your Relationship After Betrayal...Even If It Looks Like It's Over

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Repairing Broken Trust after betrayal can feel hopeless.

The cascade of consequences is overwhelming, humiliating, terrifying. You’re not only dealing with your partner’s loss of respect, but maybe even loss of respect for yourself. It seems like the more you try to fix things, the worse it gets. You ease up and hope it gets better, but you find yourself trapped in a cycle of the same arguments.

All Is NOT Lost!

The good news is you and your partner CAN create a new and improved relationship. You just need to create an environment where trust can grow again. Fortunately, there is a proven way to rebuild the trust you've broken that not many people know about. That's why I created the Trust Building Bootcamp.

Who this Course is for

This course is designed specifically for the partner who broke the trust and is ready to do the work to repair it.
 
If you have caused harm in your relationship through betrayal or broken trust, and you are ready to take full responsibility for your actions, this program will guide you step-by-step through how to rebuild safety, earn back trust, and become a consistent source of truth and emotional security for your partner. You will learn how to show genuine change through your attitudes, behaviors, and daily interactions so your partner can begin to feel safe with you again without pressure or defensiveness.
 
This course is completely self-paced and does not include live coaching or support. 
 
If you are looking for a complete recovery program that includes live group support, coaching, accountability, and a full roadmap for both partners, you are invited to join Courageous Together, my comprehensive couples healing program.

Your relationship deserves another chance.
No matter how broken things feel right now, The Trust Building Bootcamp will guide you step by step towards restoring your relationship and yourself.

How You’ll Start Healing

In this Bootcamp, you’ll learn how to rebuild trust step by step — with honesty, accountability, and compassion. You’ll understand what true healing looks like for both sides and how to communicate in ways that restore safety and connection.The Trust Building Bootcamp is a 12-week online course that will help you...

01 Get clear on exactly what you need to do right now to start repairing your relationship.

02 Improve communication with your partner and understand why they respond the way they do.

03 Create healing conditions that actively rebuild trust every single day.

04 Become more self-aware and avoid destructive behaviors that may cause you to unintentionally break trust.

05 Become a trustworthy person again –  not just for yourself & your partner, but in all of your relationships.

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What You’ll Get

Module 1

I hurt my loved one...now what?

Broken trust puts everyone in crisis and it’s critical to make smart choices to help begin the trust rebuilding process as quickly as possible. I’ll teach you what to do and what not to do in the early days and weeks after trust has been broken.

Module 2

Understanding Betrayal Trauma

In this module, I’ll explain betrayal trauma and help you understand why your betrayed partner responds the way they do. I’ll also outline what your partner needs in order to heal so you can learn how to offer support.

Module 3

Taking care of yourself

Even though you’re working to help your partner heal, you need to make sure you’re as stable as possible so you can be there for them. I’ll help you identify specific areas where you need to strengthen yourself to make sure you can go the distance and keep showing up for your partner.

Module 4

Getting your heart right

Your motives and attitude need to be in the right place so you can be a source of healing for your injured partner. Otherwise, your partner won’t ever feel safe with you and trust you. This module will help you get your heart aligned so you can do the right things for the right reasons.

Module 5

Becoming self-aware

Most people don’t mean to break trust. Usually serious mistakes happen due to a lack of self-awareness. I’ll help you identify your blind spots and become more self-aware so you can avoid the patterns that caused you to break trust.

Module 6

Owning your story

If you’ve ever kept a secret from your loved one, then you’ve struggled to own your story. I’ll teach you how to face your own story without shame and denial. You’ll work hard to get honest about what you’ve done and how it’s impacted you and your loved one.

Module 7

Creating healing conditions

Rebuilding trust not only takes time, but also requires creating the correct healing conditions. Even though you can’t make the injured person trust you again, you can create conditions that will make it easier for them to decide to trust again. In this module, you’ll learn what these conditions are and why they're necessary for trust to thrive.

Module 8

You’re a pain and a comfort

If you’re getting mixed signals from your hurt loved one, it’s because you are actually two things to them: You are both a source of pain as well as a source of comfort. Understanding this reality will help you respond to them in healthy ways. I will give you specific tools to help you respond better to your partner’s pain.

Module 9

Avoid these destructive behaviors

As you work to rebuild trust, you'll inadvertently say and do things that hurt your partner. I’ll help you identify and eliminate the most common problem behaviors and attitudes that keep the relationship from progressing forward in the trust-building process.

Module 10

How to really listen

As trust starts to heal, your injured loved one will have a lot to say about the ways your actions impacted them. Your ability to take in their world and truly listen will be a determining factor in rebuilding trust. If you fail to really listen to what they’re saying, it could reverse all of the trust-building progress you’ve made. I’ll teach you what good listeners do so you can offer your injured partner a safe and secure environment to open up their world to you.

Module 11

This is better than “I’m sorry”

I’ll teach you how to stay in ongoing long-term accountability and maintain the gains you’ve created in rebuilding trust. Living a new life worthy of trust is better than a thousand expressions of “I’m sorry.” I’ll clarify the overall roadmap of long-term trust maintenance and address specific relationship scenarios that can be challenging to navigate.

Module 12

Building your new relationship

Rebuilding trust means building a new relationship that looks nothing like the former relationship. Even though your relationship can't be fully rebuilt after 12 weeks, I’ll share my vision for what’s possible so you can continue building on this new foundation of trust.

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12 Modules of Video Training & Course Materials

Bonus the Trust Building Support Library:

  • Archived recordings of monthly webinars that focus on how to continue creating trust-building conditions 
  • Get unstuck as you hear answers to other people's trust-building questions in these archived recordings.

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  Access the full course today and begin rebuilding trust and connection at your own pace.
Everything you need to learn, grow, and heal is available right after you enroll.

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What People are Saying

Your guidance has helped me immensely.

I feel like I have a wonderful and open relationship with my wife. I love being a dad and enjoy playing with my two beautiful children. Thank you for helping me understand and heal in positive ways. The journey isn't over, and I love my wife who is helping me understand what true love is.

SS

Thank you for building this course.

I really like that the program covered so many important topics about trust building. I valued how it highlighted that this is for you! Just because I might be doing all the right things and everything in my power to become a trust worthy person, it doesn't mean the other person will see it that way. There is no guarantee that I will save my relationship. I learned that within my own power I can do everything possible to create those conditions of trust and that is what matters.

RJ

I found the expert advice helpful!

I found the expert advice helpful as well as the homework assignments. The program was pretty much in close alignment with the betrayal trauma I had induced upon my spouse, the course prepared me to handle some, but not all situations. Thru the course and with therapy, I eventually learned to become more empathetic and understanding of my wife's feelings. It was still difficult to deal with at times, but, after all I've done, we are no longer talking about divorce or separation.

RP

Calming, engaging, 
and challenging.

I thought that the insight and information was spot on. The homework was a great way to help me think deeper. I also learned a lot about myself and some of why I think and see things as I do. The focus on making me a better person, more self aware, and more sensitive is an ongoing learning experience. Very well done and even the guitar work in the background was a delight to listen to. Calming, engaging, and challenging - just what I needed.


DJ

It spoke closely to 
my situation!

It spoke closely to my situation, and my wife resonated with the program. I had been in therapy for 3 yrs and this was far more helpful.










JT

It's honest, fair, and truthful.

It slowed everything down and helped me understand what's going on for both my wife and me. Sometimes (often, always ;)) we need a third-party to help us understand things clearly and this boot camp was that. It's honest, fair, and truthful. 







ZV

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