Illuminate: Erica Wilcox, LPC - EMDR in the real world - Episode 76

illuminate podcast Jan 14, 2021

 I'm joined by Erica Wilcox, Licensed Professional Counselor, to talk about the power of EMDR therapy for treating trauma and other mental health concerns.

Show highlights:

- Normalize and demystify EMDR to help educate and give hope to listeners that may not have otherwise sought it out so that they can heal from hurt

- EMDR in a nutshell:...

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Illuminate: Chad Ford - Transforming fear and conflict in your life - Episode 75

illuminate podcast Dec 18, 2020

 Conflict is a normal part of life, but when there has been a serious betrayal of trust and security, working through that conflict can feel impossible. Sometimes it makes sense to stay in the relationship and sometimes its best to part ways. However, we don't always realize it, but we stay connected to those we struggle with even if we're not...

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Illuminate: Kimberly Day - Confronting abuse in marriage - Episode 74

illuminate podcast Dec 14, 2020

In this episode I interview Kimberly Day, LMHCA, about how to better diagnose and confront abuse in marriage. Kim says that when we think of betrayal trauma and really understand the dynamics of a relationship when one partner is addicted to porn or sex, it's important to look at all abuse dynamics to get a complete picture. Abuse is an important and...

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Illuminate: Dr. Mark Chamberlain - The challenge of enjoyment in the age of addiction - Episode 73

illuminate podcast Dec 07, 2020

I interview author and psychologist, Dr. Mark Chamberlain, about our struggle to experience true enjoyment in today's desensitized culture. Screens, abundant food, and other forms of stimulation make it difficult for our nervous systems and bodies to truly enjoy life's little pleasures. It can also be a challenge to enjoy relationships, spirituality,...

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Illuminate: Dr. Mark Chamberlain - Healing a marriage damaged by virtual infidelity - Episode 72

illuminate podcast Nov 23, 2020

I was thrilled to have my friend and co-author, Dr. Mark Chamberlain, join me on this episode of the podcast. Mark and I co-authored the book, "Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity" back in 2011. In this episode we talk about the origin of this book, how it helps couples, and what things we would change if it...

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Illuminate: Dr. Wally Goddard - Compassion in marriage after betrayal - Episode 71

illuminate podcast Nov 09, 2020

Betrayed partners are terrified to offer forgiveness and compassion to their unfaithful spouse. They've often already offered the benefit of the doubt, offered forgiveness and understanding, and compassion over years when they were being lied to and manipulated. So, the idea of extending this back to their partner doesn't feel safe. I join my dear...

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Illuminate: Dr. Wally Goddard - Your Blueprint for Happiness - Episode 70

illuminate podcast Oct 23, 2020

I join my dear friend and mentor, Dr. Wally Goddard, to talk about his blueprint for happiness. He describes five ways we can increase our own personal happiness regardless of what might be going on around us. You can download a copy of "Your Blueprint for Happiness" here: https://www.uaex.edu/publications/pdf/FCS813.pdf 

 

 

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Illuminate: Dr. Jill Manning - Staying safe after betrayal - Episode 69

illuminate podcast Oct 08, 2020

Dr. Jill Manning joins me in this episode to talk about how betrayed partners can stay safe in their relationship in the aftermath of sexual betrayal. She introduces her safety checklist and guide to help support betrayed partner (available with the link below). 

 

 

You can find Dr. Manning and her digital downloads at:...

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Illuminate: Dr. Jill Manning - Self-care for betrayal trauma - Episode 68

illuminate podcast Sep 24, 2020

Dr. Jill Manning joins me in this episode to talk about self-care for betrayed partners. She emphasizes the need to care for yourself physically, mentally, socially, and spiritually while healing from the impact of partner betrayal trauma. 

 

 

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Illuminate: Jody Steurer and Jamee Adams - Discover and use your voice - Episode 67

illuminate podcast Sep 12, 2020

Both men and women have the desire to be heard and feel part of an organization (4:24). As the world feels more divided, it’s essential to understand how to find unity (9:48).

 

 

Learn more from my wife Jody and her sister Jamee as they share their experiences with their podcast Your Place at the Table (38:07). They discuss how to...

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