Illuminate: Laura Brotherson - 20 Keys to Healthy Sex - Episode 65

illuminate podcast Aug 13, 2020

We usually talk about unhealthy sex and the forbidden especially when it comes to healing from pornography and sexual addiction. Even though focusing on sex won't fix a pornography or sexual addiction, couples who are working solid individual recoveries need good information so they can learn how to create healthy sex in their marriages.

 

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Q&A with Geoff: My husband keeps revealing new details of his old affair

q&a with geoff Aug 13, 2020

Question

I have been married for 23 years, and during the first 10 years my husband had three affairs – that I know of. I was devastated, but we managed to stay together. I recently found out that the second affair went further than he had originally told me. This has completely destroyed me.

Why is it bothering me as if it happened yesterday?...

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Q&A with Geoff: My fiancé and I have different ideas on repentance

q&a with geoff Aug 06, 2020

Question

This girl and I are very interested in each other. We both have a desire to be married under the premarital chastity requirements of our religion. However, we have also had similar pasts as teens and young adults involving pornography and other immoral things of that nature that will require our repentance before the marriage ceremony can...

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Illuminate: Amy Harman - How to improve your body image - Episode 64

illuminate podcast Jul 29, 2020

Amy Harman, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, shares some practical ways you can improve your body image right now. This episode is packed with actionable strategies you can use to help improve your relationship with your body. 

 

 

Amy just released her new book, "Perfectly Imperfect: Compassionate Strategies to Cultivate a...

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My impression of my wife was wrong, and I don’t feel like I’m special to her

q&a with geoff Jul 28, 2020

Question

I just barely found out that my wife had been promiscuous with her neighbor right before we began dating. She had just divorced her husband, and in a matter of days, she was already involved with someone else. I really had hoped that this “church girl” I thought I was married to was not so promiscuous as I’ve now learned she...

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Q&A with Geoff: What is the difference between helping and being used?

q&a with geoff Jul 23, 2020

Question

Is there a dividing line between loving or helping our neighbor and being taken advantage of? Our neighbor drives old cars and calls us whenever he breaks down, even in the middle of the night. My husband always goes and helps him, but I’m starting to feel we are being used.

Answer

You’re asking an important question that...

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Illuminate: Amy Harman - Making peace with your body - Episode 63

illuminate podcast Jul 20, 2020

I interview Amy Harman, LMFT about the challenge of making peace with our bodies in a body-obsessed and pornified culture. In this interview, we cover: 

  • The definition of good body image
  • How poor body image really isn't about our bodies
  • How poor body image impacts men and women
  • How we develop poor body image
  • The first steps to changing poor body...
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Q&A with Geoff: How can my husband and I get out of our ‘feast and famine’ pattern?

q&a with geoff Jul 17, 2020

Question

Our relationship seems to always be feast or famine. We’ve talked about it on multiple occasions, yet we continue to be stuck in this pattern. Surely it must be indicative of something. It certainly doesn’t seem healthy, even for a marriage recovering from betrayal. What can we do? 

As an example, in terms of physical...

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Q&A with Geoff: Should I expect to know my husband's phone code?

q&a with geoff Jul 16, 2020

Question

After 25 years of marriage, my husband put a code on his phone and won’t let me know it. It’s now been 11 months, and whenever I say anything about it, he gets upset. When he initially did it, he said it’s either going to make or break the marriage, but he’s prepared for any outcome. This really hurts. How should I...

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Q&A with Geoff: My husband discovered he has a 32-year old son and I have so many questions

Uncategorized Jul 11, 2020

Question

I have been married for more than 20 years and have four children ages 11 to 25. A few months ago, my husband found out that he has a 32-year-old son who has been looking for him since 2010. My husband said that he had a girlfriend back in 1988, and apparently, she got pregnant and did not inform him because they eventually broke up and she...

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