Q&A with Geoff: I caught my 11-year-old daughter reading a trashy novel

q&a with geoff Sep 04, 2020

Question

I just found out my 11-year-old has read an inappropriate young adult novel. The novel is about 16-year-old girls who form a friendship at their shoplifters anonymous group. The book has inappropriate language and graphic sexual content. I am beyond crushed and upset.

My daughter received the book as a gift a few months ago. After reading the...

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Q&A with Geoff: My wife is shutting down sexually

q&a with geoff Sep 02, 2020

Question

My wife and I have been married for 25 years, and recently she refuses to do foreplay at all when we are sexually intimate. What should I do? 

Answer

It can be alarming to have your partner suddenly change their preferences, especially after 25 years of marriage. Our needs and preferences change as we develop and find ways to better...

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Illuminate: Laura Brotherson - 20 Keys to Healthy Sex (Part 2) - Episode 66

illuminate podcast Aug 31, 2020

We usually talk about unhealthy sex and the forbidden especially when it comes to healing from pornography and sexual addiction. Even though focusing on sex won't fix a pornography or sexual addiction, couples who are working solid individual recoveries need good information so they can learn how to create healthy sex in their marriages.

 

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Guest appearance: Unashamed Unafraid podcast - Disclosure: Do's & Don'ts with Geoff Steurer - Episode 38

guest post Aug 18, 2020

“Every day that you don’t tell your spouse about your addiction is one more day that she will feel you manipulated her.”

 

 

Geoff Steurer is a professional therapist from Lifestar Group in St. George, Utah. He co-wrote the book, “Love You, Hate the Porn.” He also has a podcast called Illuminate. He is an...

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Illuminate: Laura Brotherson - 20 Keys to Healthy Sex - Episode 65

illuminate podcast Aug 13, 2020

We usually talk about unhealthy sex and the forbidden especially when it comes to healing from pornography and sexual addiction. Even though focusing on sex won't fix a pornography or sexual addiction, couples who are working solid individual recoveries need good information so they can learn how to create healthy sex in their marriages.

 

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Q&A with Geoff: My husband keeps revealing new details of his old affair

q&a with geoff Aug 13, 2020

Question

I have been married for 23 years, and during the first 10 years my husband had three affairs – that I know of. I was devastated, but we managed to stay together. I recently found out that the second affair went further than he had originally told me. This has completely destroyed me.

Why is it bothering me as if it happened yesterday?...

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Q&A with Geoff: My fiancé and I have different ideas on repentance

q&a with geoff Aug 06, 2020

Question

This girl and I are very interested in each other. We both have a desire to be married under the premarital chastity requirements of our religion. However, we have also had similar pasts as teens and young adults involving pornography and other immoral things of that nature that will require our repentance before the marriage ceremony can...

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Illuminate: Amy Harman - How to improve your body image - Episode 64

illuminate podcast Jul 29, 2020

Amy Harman, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, shares some practical ways you can improve your body image right now. This episode is packed with actionable strategies you can use to help improve your relationship with your body. 

 

 

Amy just released her new book, "Perfectly Imperfect: Compassionate Strategies to Cultivate a...

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My impression of my wife was wrong, and I don’t feel like I’m special to her

q&a with geoff Jul 28, 2020

Question

I just barely found out that my wife had been promiscuous with her neighbor right before we began dating. She had just divorced her husband, and in a matter of days, she was already involved with someone else. I really had hoped that this “church girl” I thought I was married to was not so promiscuous as I’ve now learned she...

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Q&A with Geoff: What is the difference between helping and being used?

q&a with geoff Jul 23, 2020

Question

Is there a dividing line between loving or helping our neighbor and being taken advantage of? Our neighbor drives old cars and calls us whenever he breaks down, even in the middle of the night. My husband always goes and helps him, but I’m starting to feel we are being used.

Answer

You’re asking an important question that...

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